1. Daily, highlight the good things the child has done.
2. Trust in what the child can do and be careful at your attitude, your body language.
3. Offer to your child, each day the opportunity to do something which put him in a good light.
4. Use difficult moments, or fearfull moments to help the child to fight and be victoriuos.
5. Give to your child the possibility to mend, to rectify all his mistakes.